what do you want it to look like?

I spent the last few days with my youngest son, Ben (15), in Breckenridge, CO. We have 3 boys, and as they get older, the 1-1 time is really special. Like many 15-year-olds, he's not super chatty, but I didn't want a 2.5-hr drive to pass us by without an attempt at meaningful conversation. So I turned down the stereo and asked him, "Hey... what do you want your life to look like in 10 years?" I tried versions of this question with his brothers and was met with shrugs and "dunno's"... But the...